The Clothesline Collection is a compilation of parenting and life columns
from The Kings County Advertiser that spins positive New Age village mythos,
offering understanding and help on a wide range of Community and family-based
topics. Lila Hope-Simpson is a writer, childcare worker, adult educator, Life
Coach, wife and mother. She has worked in daycares, operating Home and Heart
Child Development Centre for 18 years in Wolfville, Nova Scotia and has had
various political appointments re: daycare policy. She has written a children’s
book Fiddle & Spoons: Journey of an Acadian Mouse and a novel Stepping Out and
is currently writing children’s book’s.
A first person narrative that draws the reader in and illuminates on a wide
range of contemporary topics, often with a subtle cast of humor. The topics are
well chosen and present concise short reads with everything you need to know
often with a followup for further questions. As well as being a parenting and
daycare guide, the author talks about her life, life in Nova Scotia and the
columns are an underground guide to events Nova Scotia.
Parenting topics with titles, Wear your baby (on the benefits of wearing your
baby tied to your body), Children grieve too (on how to deal with the death of a
family member, friend or pet), Let’s talk about sex (on how to give young
children basic info, “mommy and daddy make babies” and boundaries around touch),
Cry baby (on how different cries communicate different things), From diapers to
pants (on toilet training tips), Bed-wetting (usually children outgrow
eneuresis), Behaviour contract (how to change the negative behaviour of a
teenager), Sorry ‘bout that (teaching a child how to ask to play with other
children’s toys rather than taking them) and more.
She also reaches out in a personal way and includes the Reader in her life. The
author talks about how staying in touch with an elderly aunt enriches her and
her families life in Blue tattoo and chocolate, on her youngest 18 year old
daughter leaving home in The Empty Nest, she talks about how the children listen
to the radio for school cancellation on winter days in Snow day and she jokes
“Always make sure you have chocolate in the house for snow days”, how parents
worry and imagine fantasies of dread about their children from the time of
pregnancy to adulthood in Don’t worry be happy, about being in the Dominican
Republic with her 6 month old grandchild in Travels with Max and about living
with breast cancer in Breast cancer hits home.
Life in Nova Scotia includes stories of Frenchy’s, the local secondhand purveyor
of clothing, and in Supermarket enounters she not only runs into friends but she
chats people up about the products they are buying, and From vegetarian to vegan
about cooking vegetarian meals for her daughter.
The family themes are great for ideas for activities with your children and are
a primer on raising children. Often the stories of life Nova Scotia will include
ideas for family outings including the annual pumpkin regatta on Lake Pesaquid,
Windsor, Nova Scotia; the Annual Eagle Watch in Sheffield Mills, Nova Scotia in
an article about teaching the children about birding, family fun at the open-air
market and researching the story of her family coming from Poland at Pier 21
Museum – “the Ellis Island of Canada in Halifax”.
The columns also deal with contemporary and sometimes controversial topics
giving insight and an overview in a summarized form. The work or stay home
dilemma is about being a working mum or a stay at home mum, Date rape beware is
an article on how to prevent rape, and in The shopping moratorium, “since I’ve
decided that I already have what I need, I decided to put a stop to unnecessary
shopping and consumerism” so she only buys what she really needs or sales “too
good to pass up.” And she writes about a trip to Cuba in Viva Cuba! where she
gives the local people clothes, school supplies, toiletries and how it is a
family oriented place.
Not unlike Reader’s Digest but more interesting and a personal view of the
author and her family Canadiana. The Clothesline Collection: a compilation
of Positive Parenting columns, a primer on parenting and family, a day in
the life of Lila Hope-Simpson.
Genre: Parenting, Family, Women's Literature
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